Ephesians 4:25-32
We are part of the same body. Stop lying and start telling each other the truth. Don’t get so angry that you sin. Don’t go to bed angry and don’t give the devil a chance.
If you are a thief, quit stealing. Be honest and work hard, so you will have something to give to people in need.
Stop all your dirty talk. Say the right thing at the right time and help others by what you say.
Don’t make God’s Spirit sad. The Spirit makes you sure that someday you will be free from your sins.
Stop being bitter and angry and mad at others. Don’t yell at one another or curse each other or ever be rude. Instead, be kind and merciful, and forgive others, just as God forgave you because of Christ.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
In Genesis 4:9, God asks Cain to account for the whereabouts of his brother, Abel. Cain asks God, “Am I my brother’s keeper?” Of course, God knew what had happened…and Cain was trying to cover his tracks and hide the fact that he had just killed his brother! What does this have to do with these admonitions from Paul to the Ephesians? The point is that God sees and hears everything. He knows our every word and action…and more importantly, God knows our intent! Moreover, when we give the devil a chance and/or succumb to the will of mere mortals, we often grieve God and make his Spirit sad.
I was visiting with a friend who is a retired juvenile judge, and he explained to me that in law, some things are considered a crime when done in a specific setting – but they are allowable in others. Specifically, we were talking about cases of sexual misconduct and abuse with children “of the age of consent.” He explained that if an adult met an “of-age” teen at a diner and struck up a conversation that led to sexual activity, this could be ruled “consensual.” But if this same adult approached this teen in the same manner at school or at church, such behavior could be deemed “sexual misconduct.” Perhaps God directed Paul to offer specifics about how we should behave because we humans are prone to playing fast and loose with interpretation and semantics, just as Cain did when confronted directly about what had become of Abel.
God knows when we allow the devil even a chance to cause us to falter. He knows when we manipulate the facts and twist words and actions to suit our own agenda…or to gain favor with others. And many of our behaviors truly grieve God. Are you okay with this? I’m not! The last thing I ever want to do is to grieve God. I truly don’t want to upset or embarrass my family and friends, but my number one responsibility is to my Heavenly Father. And frankly, if I please him, nothing and no one else matters! They will either get over it or they won’t. But the stakes are too high – and our reward was too costly to our Savior, Jesus Christ – for us to worry about what the world thinks!
Search your heart and mind. Ask God to show you where you might be listening to the devil – or even entertaining the possibility of indulging him. Don’t twist and turn the details to suit your own agenda – or to fit in with the crowd. Don’t give the devil a chance…and don’t make God’s Spirit sad. And do not judge others who may be struggling with peer pressure and making some questionable decisions in the process. Pray that they hear God’s voice and turn to Him instead of the devil. Above all, be kind, merciful, and forgiving, just as God forgives you. We are not our “brother’s keeper,” but we are all God’s children. Alleluia!
©2024 Debbie Robus