Romans 12:3-8
I’m speaking to you out of deep gratitude for all that God has given me, and especially as I have responsibilities in relation to you. Living then, as every one of you does, in pure grace, it’s important that you not misinterpret yourselves as people who are bringing this goodness to God. No, God brings it all to you. The only accurate way to understand ourselves is by what God is and by what he does for us, not by what we are and what we do for him.
In this way we are like the various parts of a human body. Each part gets its meaning from the body as a whole, not the other way around. The body we’re talking about is Christ’s body of chosen people. Each of us finds our meaning and function as a part of his body. But as a chopped-off finger or cut-off toe we wouldn’t amount to much, would we? So since we find ourselves fashioned into all these excellently formed and marvelously functioning parts in Christ’s body, let’s just go ahead and be what we were made to be, without enviously or pridefully comparing ourselves with each other, or trying to be something we aren’t.
If you preach, just preach God’s Message, nothing else; if you help, just help, don’t take over; if you teach, stick to your teaching; if you give encouraging guidance, be careful that you don’t get bossy; if you’re put in charge, don’t manipulate; if you’re called to give aid to people in distress, keep your eyes open and be quick to respond; if you work with the disadvantaged, don’t let yourself get irritated with them or depressed by them. Keep a smile on your face.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Last year, I volunteered at the elementary school – primarily in Timothy’s 2nd grade class…although I did help a few other teachers with some tasks, like making copies and specific art projects. Yesterday, I went to school to eat lunch with Zola and her first grade classmates. It was my first visit this school year…and I was merely there as a “visitor” with the “mission” of eating lunch with my niece.
As the classes lined up to make the trek to lunch (which is almost the equivalent of a city block), it became apparent that one of the teachers’ aides who accompany the group was missing. An aide was at the head of the line, signaling to the students to get quiet and pay attention. Zola looked at me and said, “Hey, Mrs. XYZ is not here today, so YOU can be Mrs. Knight’s helper!” I explained that I there as a visitor – not a volunteer – and Mrs. Knight did not need my help.
Of course, I could have helped. I could have monitored the back of the line, assisted in the cafeteria with opening milk cartons and packets of food in lunch boxes. But that was not my “place”…and out of respect to the men and women who were there doing their job, I did not interfere. If you are a teacher – or you know someone who is – you know how hard it can be for us to “stand down” and not get involved!
Here’s the thing…we have to learn to “stay in our lane” – in everything from what seems as innocent or harmless as encouraging first graders to stay in a straight line traveling to lunch…to sharing opinions that were not solicited…or jumping on a particular bandwagon in an attempt to fit in or look important. Sometimes, even when we have the capabilities and the “fit” seems a logical one, God is gently whispering…”That’s not your circus – not your monkeys!” And we would do well to listen!
We often allow others to pressure us into “sticking our finger into two many pies”…and nothing ends up being done suitably. Ask God to show you what you do well…what He wants you to do and where/how He wants you to serve…and make that your focus. Know when to say “When!”…and when to step aside and let someone else complete his/her job or mission. Let God show you when to be the teacher/aide/volunteer/confidante/counselor/fundraiser/preacher/mediater/healer…and when He wants you to be the “visiting aunt/uncle/friend/guest”.
We are all part of the body of Christ…with important missions and functions. Let’s just be sure that we remain focused and address those with which we have been tasked. Leave anything other tasks to whoever God has assigned to complete them…and pay attention to how well He weaves it all together for His glory.
©2017 Debbie Robus