The Lord All-Powerful
will destroy the power of death
and wipe away all tears.
No longer will his people
be insulted everywhere.
The Lord has spoken!
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
This is the “what now?” day of Holy Week. If you’ve ever lost a loved one, you probably know what I mean. In the first 24 hours or so, you come to terms with the fact that the person you love is gone. You are left to wonder, “What now?” You ask, “Where do we go from here? What do we do next? How do we go on? What on earth do we DO?”
For me, the answer is usually to “get busy”. It’s not hard, with arrangements to make, people to greet, and business affairs to handle. When my cousin called last summer shortly before midnight to tell me that his brother was gone, I got up and folded laundry that was in the clothes dryer. I know it sounds ridiculous, but at that moment, I just had to DO SOMETHING!
I realize that not everyone is like this. Some people retreat and do nothing. I honestly believe that God wants us to get busy…but maybe not in the way I have described. Yes, we know that Jesus didn’t stay in the tomb…that tomorrow we will celebrate the fact that He rose after three days and lives in our hearts today and forever. But this is not the case with our mortal loved ones. We know that they are not returning to this earth…and this knowledge hurts – deeply, profoundly, and always.
God understands our grief and sadness…our heartache and emptiness. And He is telling us to “fill it”. When Jesus came back to the disciples after He rose from the grave, He told them to go and share the Good News with others. He said to tell everyone about Him…to heal the sick and feed the needy in His name. The disciples and followers of Christ were naturally grieved and heartbroken – twice…once by His death, and then again when Jesus told them that He was leaving for Heaven.
But Jesus gave them assignments…and those are our assignments, as well. Will “busyness” alleviate our grief and heal our broken hearts? Not completely. Serving God is not meant to be a substitute for loving someone dearly and feeling their absence. But it does give us purpose. And in serving God, we say, “Jesus matters! What He did for each of us has great significance, and we should want to honor Him by serving others as He did. We should want to share His message with the world and glorify His sacrifice on the cross for our sins.”
So…what now? Where are you today? Are you stuck somewhere in the grief and angst of whatever is happening around you? Are you wondering where to go next or trying to figure out what lies ahead? Or have you jumped in with both feet and gotten busy serving Jesus…wherever and however He leads you? This can be a day of confusion – or one of great purpose. Which one will you choose?
©2018 Debbie Robus