Romans 5:3-5
But that’s not all! We gladly suffer, because we know that suffering helps us to endure. And endurance builds character, which gives us a hope that will never disappoint us. All of this happens because God has given us the Holy Spirit, who fills our hearts with his love.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
In the last month, I have been directly reminded of human suffering. More than one close friend has lost a parent. I have dear friends and loved ones who are undergoing chemotherapy – and dealing with side effects on a daily basis. I have friends who are caring for loved ones with the heartbreaking – and often bizarre – idiosyncrasies of dementia. I know people who are enduring the challenges of post-surgical recoveries…and others who are “suffering” emotionally in one way or another. And we won’t even get started on the heartache and difficulties that thousands are experiencing in because of the flood waters and recent tornado damage.
You can fill in the blanks with your own tales of human suffering. None of us is immune. If today is a “good day” for you…relish in it and thank God for the blessing. At the risk of being “Debbie Downer”, a harder day is surely ahead. But here’s the thing…God will use our suffering, just as Paul tells us in Romans 5:3-5. Through the Holy Spirit, God can equip us not only to endure our own suffering…but to offer hope and encouragement to others in their own time of need.
Just this morning, I exchanged messages with a dear friend whose mother has dementia and accompanying hallucinations. I told her of my own grandmother’s “visions” as she succumbed to late-stage Parkinson’s Disease…and how unnerving these were for all of us. I offered a couple of suggestions for coping…and I reminded her that she WILL survive this rough time in her life. There really is no “quick fix” that will make this instantly better. But God is still in control…and He will help us cope – if only we will communicate with Him, and TRUST HIM!
I also told my friend that I often remind myself, “You should start practicing what you preach!” I am a slow learner…and a work in progress. I doubt and get frustrated just like anyone else. But I have learned much from my life experiences. At the time, I sometimes wondered where God had gone…or why He was punishing me or someone I loved. But I see so much more clearly now that He has been building my strength and endurance…and equipping me to offer hope and encouragement to others. I bet He’s doing the same for you…are you paying attention?
I can’t say that I “gladly suffer”, but I don’t question things quite as much as I once did. I am learning to trust more…to call out to God and recognize His Holy Spirit working in and through me. I know that God wants only good things for me. But He also wants me to be prepared for any and all circumstances as His servant and Christ’s disciple. And this means that He has to strengthen my faith muscle by means that I don’t always appreciate…like suffering. I know that He will never desert me…or take me to anything that He cannot – and will not – bring me through. And for this amazing gift of love and care, I give Him praise. What about you?
©2019 Debbie Robus