He was wounded and crushed
because of our sins;
by taking our punishment,
he made us completely well.
All of us were like sheep
that had wandered off.
We had each gone our own way,
but the Lord gave him
the punishment we deserved.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
In Thurmont, Maryland, the father of 18-year-old Nichole Cevario, a student at Catoctin High School, discovered evidence that his daughter was planning a mass shooting at her school that would end with her own suicide. Cevario’s father called authorities and turned in his daughter. This must have been a gut-wrenching decision…and one that potentially saved many lives.
Like many parents, I would imagine that this father wishes that he could trade places with his daughter right now. I would bet he wishes the evaluations and interrogations – not to mention potential treatments or incarceration that she will receive – were all on him. What parent wants their child to suffer? I can’t imagine anything more heartbreaking than watching a beloved child receive punishment – even deservedly so – and not being able to do anything to change this.
I have long wondered how Mary, the mother of Jesus, accompanied Him through the streets of Jerusalem to the hill at Golgotha…how she watched as His hands and feet were pierced and Jesus was hung on the cross to die. Mary knew all the while that Jesus was perfectly innocent of any “crime”. How did she survive helplessly watching this?
Let’s be clear…no one wants to see a loved one suffer. And many have said, “I would gladly take his/her place.” I can’t stand to see one of our three go through even a minor disappointment! And I understand that children must make mistakes, suffer consequences, and learn from them…but I sometimes wish I could just say, “I’ll fix this for you…just promise me to never misbehave again!” At the same time, when push comes to shove, I wonder if we truly would make this offer if the suffering were particularly horrific – and/or we knew just how bad it was going to be, as in the case of Jesus. We are, after all, fickle humans!
I guess what I am trying to say is that we cannot begin to fathom what Christ did for us…how He suffered, bled and died – for us! We do not fully appreciate His physical suffering, His humiliation and ridicule, and the AGONY of the crucifixion…for us! Remind yourself that Jesus did NOTHING wrong…EVER! Yet He endured every punishment that you and I surely deserved – and more.
For a number of years in my early Christian life, I served Jesus out of fear…fear of sin and failure…fear of spending Eternity in hell…fear of disappointing God to the point that He would totally abandon me. But the more I learned about how God loved me enough to send Jesus…and Jesus loved me enough to be bruised, beaten, spit upon, dehumanized, and brutally crucified – for my sins – I began to serve out of a deep and profound love and gratitude.
That anyone would say, “Pile the expense of her sin on Me. I’ll pay for it with my very life!” is astounding – and incredibly humbling. I cannot fathom the depth of Christ’s love for me…but I surely want to try!
I know we cannot always take the punishment and “consequences” for loved ones. But Jesus has already done this for each and every one of us. How are you demonstrating your gratitude?
©2017 Debbie Robus