Dear friends, let us practice loving each other, for love comes from God and those who are loving and kind show that they are the children of God, and that they are getting to know him better.
The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
Yesterday, I visited my orthopedic surgeon to get cortisone injections in my hands…a treatment for osteoarthritis. (This is why there was no devotional yesterday.) I won’t lie…the “shots” were brutal…and the doctor kept apologizing for inflicting such necessary pain. Greg went with me, and I told both men that I could not guarantee I wouldn’t say something ugly. The surgeon told me that he had heard it all…and to say whatever I needed!
Thankfully, I refrained from colorful language…although I might have yelped pretty loudly a time or two. But I can assure you, I wanted to say plenty! By the grace of God, I made it through and received “full doses” in both hands that will hopefully buy me many months of full range of motion without pain and discomfort.
In the last few months, especially, many things have happened that have left me wanting to say “ugly things”. I have witnessed people behaving badly…”Christians” operating without any semblance of love…name calling…criticism…and hateful behaviors. I’ve seen people demonstrate selfishness, self-centeredness, and downright deception. I have observed the mistreatment of others at the hands of more than one person who professes to love and serve Jesus.
I’ll admit…there has been a voice in my head (and I know it’s the devil) that said, “Let ‘em have it! Tell them off! Call them names and respond on social media. Call these vile people out in public…criticize them and tell them they are not behaving like Christians. Put them in their place and let the whole world know how terrible you think they are!”
But a saner, LOUDER Voice says, “Don’t lower your standards to theirs. Don’t sink to their level…and don’t judge. Just love. Let My love cover you – and by default – surround them. Show others with your words and actions how I expect you to live and serve as My disciple. When they are unkind, be kind…when they call someone names or lie and deceive, lift those persons up and offer them a helpful, hopeful word of encouragement. Smile…and hug those you’d really like to throttle! Drop a note of hope and offers of prayer to someone who has been a real stinker. Speak calmly and kindly to the person who has just nearly chewed off your head – or that of someone you know and love.
Is it hard? You bet! Some days, my inner being kicks and screams and says, “NO! NO! NO! I just can’t do it! It’s simply TOO hard! Retaliation would feel SO good!” But it won’t…at least not for very long. Meekness is not a sign of weakness. It takes a really strong person, powered by some amazing grace and mercy, to offer love to people who are unlovely.
Look at it this way…you and I have surely been unlovely to Jesus plenty of times. We have mistreated Him and said and done things that undoubtedly caused Him to wish He could dust His hands and be rid of us. And yet, Jesus will NEVER leave us. He will NEVER stop loving us. He desires to know us better…to be totally in our business every minute of the day, no matter how we behave.
There will be plenty of opportunities to say and do “ugly things”…to speak unkindly or treat others badly. Whether it is the temporary agony inflicted in hopes of buying a few pain-free months…or the deliberate demonstration of hatred and malice exacted by someone who apparently does not have the love of God in their heart…we must endure it all – and to love in return – because God first loved us.
WE.CAN.DO.THIS! The Holy Spirit will equip us for such a task. Are you ready, willing, and able to operate continually in the love of God? Is this the day you’ll recommit to doing so?
©2017 Debbie Robus