Daily Devotional for May 31, 2018 – We should love one another…

1 John 3:11-16
…for the message to us from the beginning has been that we should love one another.

We are not to be like Cain, who belonged to Satan and killed his brother. Why did he kill him? Because Cain had been doing wrong and he knew very well that his brother’s life was better than his. So don’t be surprised, dear friends, if the world hates you.

If we love other Christians, it proves that we have been delivered from hell and given eternal life. But a person who doesn’t have love for others is headed for eternal death. Anyone who hates his Christian brother is really a murderer at heart; and you know that no one wanting to murder has eternal life within.  We know what real love is from Christ’s example in dying for us. And so we also ought to lay down our lives for our Christian brothers.

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

Believe it or not, I’m almost at a loss for words…almost!  The Bible can’t be plainer about how we are to behave. Scripture tells over and over to “love one another”. We can’t claim to love Jesus and serve Him…and then act however we please. We cannot treat others unkindly – much less hate them. We cannot envy those who appear to have more than we have – physically, spiritually, or in any other regard.

The message is pure and simple…we cannot lie, cheat, steal, and hate. We must say and do everything with love. And for a lot of us (including me), this is going to take some work! We cannot share jokes or memes that disparage others. We cannot agree with our friends and loved ones when they say or do unloving things. We cannot condone sinful behavior, but we must not judge and denigrate those who act this way.

Believe it or not, you can stand up for what is right and true…and do so in a loving manner.  You can get your point across with positive statements, loving words and gestures, and kindness. You can say, “That is not a true statement” without calling the other guy a liar.  You can call out injustice without labeling someone with a derogatory name – or belittling him/her in some manner.

How do I know this can be done?  Because Jesus did it!  He showed us how to operate in love and kindness…how to reject the devil and embrace God.  He took our sins so that we don’t have to wallow in them ever again. And He instilled in us – His redeemed believers – the wisdom, power and strength to resist the temptation to behave badly.

Because of Jesus and His gift of the Holy Spirit, we can operate in love at all times – and in all things.  And we absolutely must start now.

©2018 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for May 28, 2018 – Operating in love…and staying on track

1 Corinthians 16:13-14
Keep your eyes open for spiritual danger; stand true to the Lord; act like men; be strong; and whatever you do, do it with kindness and love.

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

As I read this scripture passage, I was reminded of the three classroom rules I established when I was teaching kindergarten more than thirty years ago…

  • Be kind to others.
  • Work and play quietly.
  • Respect other people’s property.

Like the guidelines outlined by the Apostle Paul in these verses from Corinthians 16, these principles pretty well covered all of the bases. All I had to do was ask a child, “Are you being kind to others?  Are you working and playing quietly?  Are you showing respect for the property of others?” This may seem simplistic, but it worked!  The children understood that these principles applied to their words and actions toward fellow classmates, their teacher, the classroom, the playground – and everything in every space they occupied.

Being a Christian is not always easy. We are tempted to retaliate when cornered, criticized, or treated badly. We are human…so we are often weak. We get caught up in “life” and don’t always pay attention. When our backs are to the wall, we let the devil influence us – and we don’t always stand true to the Lord.  But we can do better.

While there are temptations and challenges to living continually in the love of Christ, in many ways, it’s not all that hard.  We just have to remember Paul’s guidelines…or the three I outlined for my kindergarten students.  At the core, we have to ask ourselves, “Am I operating in kindness and love?” Our answer will tell us all we need to know to stay on track.

©2018 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for May 29, 2018 – Getting the “punch line”…and growing in God’s love

1 Corinthians 13:11-13
It’s like this: when I was a child I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child does. But when I became a man my thoughts grew far beyond those of my childhood, and now I have put away the childish things. In the same way, we can see and understand only a little about God now, as if we were peering at his reflection in a poor mirror; but someday we are going to see him in his completeness, face-to-face. Now all that I know is hazy and blurred, but then I will see everything clearly, just as clearly as God sees into my heart right now.

There are three things that remain—faith, hope, and love—and the greatest of these is love.

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

Our kids love “knock-knock” jokes. We’ve spent a lot of time sharing these “funnies.”  For the most part, 9-year-old Timothy understands them. The other two – ages 7 and 6 – still struggle with some of the meanings and “punch lines”.  So we will tell a “knock-knock” joke, and everyone will laugh. Then Nathan, in particular, will try to re-tell it, and his “punch line” doesn’t work. But he laughs anyway as if what he just said was hysterical. And usually, we play along.

We have enjoyed watching “the light go on” as the children mature and become able to understand jokes with double meanings and plays on words.  This expands not only their vocabulary…but also their intellect and ways of thinking about things.

I imagine it is much like this as we discover more about God’s love.  He must take great delight in watching us discover His meanings and messages…the fullness of His love for us.  When we are little – or “new Christians” – there is no way we can completely comprehend what it means to be loved by God. And this is as He intended.  In the beginning, it is sufficient to understand that God loves us with a never-ending love.

But as we grow in our faith…spend time in Bible study and fellowship with others…learn to listen for God’s voice and discover how the Holy Spirit is available to guide us…we see God’s love more clearly – and with a completely different perspective. Our “punch lines” change, so to speak.

Just as Timothy is far better at telling “knock-knock” jokes than his younger siblings…the more we grow in wisdom and faith as God’s children, the better we become at operating in His love – and sharing the Good News of Jesus with others.

Finally, I want to address the last verse of this passage. More than ever, it seems that people are claiming Salvation through the blood of Jesus…and operating in hatred, unkindness, disparagement, and divisiveness. You cannot share the love of God and be a bigot or disparage a person because of his/her gender, race, color, sexual preference, ethnic background, socio-economic status, level of education – or anything else.  You cannot share the love of God and lie, cheat, steal, or put your own agenda above that of others.  You cannot share the love of God and wallow in worry, self-pity or negativity.

Everything about our relationship with God is based in faith, hope and love. As the Apostle Paul tells us…”the greatest of these is love.” Just like an ending to a joke that doesn’t really fit…our failure to operate completely in God’s love takes the “air” out of our sails as Christ’s disciples – and makes us anything but effective. This is simply unacceptable to me…and I hope it is for you, as well.

Spend some time reflecting on your words, actions, and witness. Ask yourself if you are operating completely in love. Search for areas where love is not at the forefront.  It’s time for us to “grow up” in our wisdom – and our delivery – and operate fully in God’s love.  Are you ready?

©2018 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for May 28, 2018 – Love lasts forever

Daily Devotional for May 27, 2018 – Living by the “love verses”

1 Corinthians 13:4-7
Love is very patient and kind, never jealous or envious, never boastful or proud, never haughty or selfish or rude. Love does not demand its own way. It is not irritable or touchy. It does not hold grudges and will hardly even notice when others do it wrong. It is never glad about injustice, but rejoices whenever truth wins out. If you love someone, you will be loyal to him no matter what the cost. You will always believe in him, always expect the best of him, and always stand your ground in defending him.
The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

We’ve all heard these “love verses” dozens of times or more. We know that “love is patient and kind.” But I want you to go back and read this passage again…and as you do, think of a specific person. It can be someone you love very much – or someone you find incredibly hard to love. In fact, I suggest you do this with one of each!

We find it easy to be loyal to someone we love – to believe in him/her, expect their best, and always stand our ground in their defense. We cheer the successes of people we love. We forgive quickly and stick up for them, no matter what. We overlook most of their faults and flaws and “love ‘em anyway”! But for the person who rubs us the wrong way…or downright irritates us…all bets are generally off.

Sure, some words and behaviors are inexcusable. Yes, there are selfish, narcissistic people who always demand their own way and don’t care about collateral damage. I will be the first to tell you that there are people in this world who absolutely make my skin crawl. There are vile, disgusting humans who show no regard for their fellow man…and I am anything but a fan.

But here’s the thing…none of us are unloveable to God. He sees past the ugliness and immorality…the hatred and self-centeredness. He sees a child that He created – and loves. Maybe all of my work with young children has colored my viewpoint. But I look at every person and think, “He/she is some mother’s precious baby. Someone probably loved this child fiercely – and may still do so to this day!” More importantly, I realize that GOD loves the unloveable…just as much as He loves you and me!

I have thought about this in particular as I watched the news reports of school shootings. Many are quick to declare the shooters to be vile, deranged individuals. Some go so far as to label them as “animals”. Don’t misunderstand me…these are horrific, tragic acts – and those who commit them are, at best, mentally ill. But they were once someone’s precious little child…and they are still treasured by God. I do not excuse what these people did, any more than I can justify the drunk driver who killed someone or the parent who abuses his/her children, the dictatorial boss, or anyone else who behaves badly. But I must find a way to love them. There is a significant difference between loving someone and excusing his/her behaviors.

Probably one of the hardest things you and I will ever do is to fully operate in love. But it is also one of the most important. We are not God, so we can never love as perfectly as He does. But we can do better than we have so far. We can stop criticizing and judging…and start looking beyond the façade of ugliness – and sometimes pure evil – that some present. We can look for the little child within that God sees – and loves so deeply. And we can ask God to help us love him/her, too.

We don’t have to like or condone bad behavior…but we have to stop hating and disparaging God’s children. God’s love is patient and kind, and if we are truly Christ’s disciples, we must operate fully in His love. How well are you doing these days?

©2018 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for May 26, 2018 – Making a difference…for the wrong reasons…

1 Corinthians 10:31-33
So eat your meals heartily, not worrying about what others say about you—you’re eating to God’s glory, after all, not to please them. As a matter of fact, do everything that way, heartily and freely to God’s glory. At the same time, don’t be callous in your exercise of freedom, thoughtlessly stepping on the toes of those who aren’t as free as you are. I try my best to be considerate of everyone’s feelings in all these matters; I hope you will be, too.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.

It seems to me that we’re not treating each other very well these days.  If you look around, people are critical, cynical, disparaging, and dishonest…and that’s just how they treat their relatives!  In all seriousness, the level to which we have sunk with regard to what we feel is acceptable behavior – and decent treatment of others – has me truly upset.  I can only imagine what God must think of us!

So in this vein, I have decided to choose scriptures about how we treat others. For the next few weeks, we will see what the Bible has to say about this. My overall question each day is, “Are we making a point or making a difference?”  I believe this scripture passage today demonstrates that sometimes we are making a difference – for all of the wrong reasons!

I have re-written this devotional about four times today, because every direction I took made me feel like someone would think I was judging…or that I consider myself a paragon of virtue – and neither is the truth.  But my continual mantra that people.are.watching is absolute fact.  And if you or I cause even one person to stumble in the eyes of God because of our words and actions, this will be a travesty.

If you think this is too much work to check yourself before you speak or act, let me assure you that when we trust the Holy Spirit to make the hard decisions, this becomes a quick reflex that is a true game changer!  It’s not “work” to stop and think about these things…there really is freedom in knowing that your words and actions are led and sanctioned by the Holy Spirit.  There is confidence in understanding that the few seconds you took to question your behavior might have saved an embarrassment or hurt feelings – for you or someone else.

Your split-second check-in with the Holy Spirit might cause you to rethink sharing gossip or making an unkind remark.  It might cause you to change your plans in some manner and avoid showing up at a place where someone might get the wrong idea. A simple whispered prayer of examination might result in the peace of knowing that you didn’t share a distasteful political meme – or say something inappropriate in front of an impressionable child.

The more we consult with the Holy Spirit on the front end, the easier it becomes to operate in kindness, love, positive thoughts and words, and sound behavior.  I’m not saying that we can just hand the reins to the Holy Spirit and say, “Here…You handle this for me.” We still have to pay attention and keep checking in with Him to make sure we’re on the right track.  This Christian communion truly is a two-way street!  But isn’t it worth it to know that you are pleasing God?

Don’t you want to be a witness whose “testimony” is such that others want in on Salvation for their sins and a seat at the Kingdom Table?  I know I surely do!  I know that I don’t always get this right…but I’m doing my best these days to pay close attention.  And I know there have been several times that I’ve changed course as a result – always for the better.  What about you?

©2018 Debbie Robus

 

Daily Devotional for May 25, 2018 – Are you trying to do this on your own?

Zechariah 4:6
So the angel explained that it was the following message of the Lord to Zerubbabel:  I am the Lord All-Powerful. So don’t depend on your own power or strength, but on my Spirit.Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.

In his song,Never Been a Moment,”* artist Micah Tyler sings…

You’ve been the rock
You’ve been the peace
Always showing your good heart to me
My days are marked by grace I don’t deserve, no
You’ve been the price I could never pay
You’ve been the light that has led the way
No matter where oh I am, I am sure

There’s never been a moment
I was not held inside your arms
There’s never been a day when you were not who you say you are
Yours forever, it don’t matter
What I’m walking through
‘Cause no matter where I’m going
There’s never been a moment that I was not loved by you
Loved by you

You and I don’t have to do this on our own. We were never supposed to. God has made this very clear. He never lets go of us…never leaves us. He is always with us in the form of the Holy Spirit. We always have His power and wisdom available to us. The question is…”Will we accept it?”

On whose power and strength are you depending? Isn’t it time you acknowledged that “there’s never been a moment” that God wasn’t ready, willing and able to meet your every need? Will this be the day that you do?

©2018 Debbie Robus

*”Never Been a Moment” from the CD “Different” by Micah Tyler ©2017 Fair Trade Services ~ https://www.amazon.com/Different-Micah-Tyler/dp/B074R646C7