Luke 6:27-30
“To you who are ready for the truth, I say this: Love your enemies. Let them bring out the best in you, not the worst. When someone gives you a hard time, respond with the energies of prayer for that person. If someone slaps you in the face, stand there and take it. If someone grabs your shirt, giftwrap your best coat and make a present of it. If someone takes unfair advantage of you, use the occasion to practice the servant life. No more tit-for-tat stuff. Live generously.”
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
In 2014, a friend posted this on Facebook…”In 1998 Senator Howard Baker said in a speech to Congress the following: ‘We are doing the business of the American people, and if we cannot be civil to one another, and if we stop dealing with those with whom we disagree, or that we don’t like, we would soon stop functioning altogether.’”
I’m having a really hard time adding anything to this discussion today…probably in part, because I struggle with finding the delicate balance between standing up for what I believe is right – and “taking the high road” as a Christian. The temptation to retaliate and offend an “enemy” is sometimes pretty powerful. The desire to let someone who comments on one of my social media posts have a piece of my mind is often compelling. Let’s be honest…the “struggle” is real!
Still, Jesus has told us that we must do this. Not only did He tell us…He SHOWED us! He could have stopped those who berated Him, spit on Him, beat and flogged Him…and crucified Him. He could have turned on all of them and given them a dose of what they doled out to Him. Jesus could literally have struck His “enemies” dead! And yet, He did none of this.
I am not Jesus…not even close. I do not have His supernatural capacity to withstand suffering and degradation. I take things personally…and I bet you do, too! When someone says something that disturbs or disrespects me – or treats me unfairly in some manner – I take it to heart. And sometimes, it’s really, really hard to love that person and show him/her kindness.
So what are we to do? For me, the answer lies largely in the portion of this scripture passage that says…“respond with the energies of prayer”. When we pray, we temper animosity – our own, and hopefully the other guy’s, as well. Notice I didn’t say that it completely disappears. Let’s be honest, some folks delight in continually “stirring the pot” – and raising our blood pressure. Prayer will help us cope with such challenges…but we are going to have to largely trust God to steel our resolve and help us guard our tongues. And God will do this!
In terms of Christian faith and discipleship, this is pretty well “where the rubber hits the road”. Either we represent Jesus by treating others as He would treat them – and as we wish to be treated…or we behave in a way that disappoints and disrespects our “position” as servants of the Most High God. Either we “love our enemies” and treat them kindly…or we belie the grace and mercy that was offered to us through the blood of Jesus. And this simply does not compute for me…what about you?
©2018 Debbie Robus