Romans 8:29-30
God knew what he was doing from the very beginning. He decided from the outset to shape the lives of those who love him along the same lines as the life of his Son. The Son stands first in the line of humanity he restored. We see the original and intended shape of our lives there in him. After God made that decision of what his children should be like, he followed it up by calling people by name. After he called them by name, he set them on a solid basis with himself. And then, after getting them established, he stayed with them to the end, gloriously completing what he had begun.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
As a four-year-old little girl, I prayed, “God, let me have a little brother.” Somedays, I felt like I got more than was bargained for in my answered prayer! Like most older siblings, I found my little brother to be quite pesky at times…particularly when I was a teenager and he was an irritating 6th-7th grader who loved to meddle and aggravate his older sisters and their boyfriends. But I never stopped loving my brother and my sister.
My sister was only eleven months younger than I, so I really did not have the wisdom and maturity to pray for her arrival. But by the time we knew my mother was expecting a third child, I had enough understanding of God to know that I could ask Him for anything – and He would deliver perfectly. Perhaps in my 4-year-old mind, I thought this meant God would answer as I wanted…but in this case, my request happened to line up with His will – and I was completely enthralled with “my” new baby.
As an adult with much fuller understanding of how God works, I prayed before each of our nieces, nephews and cousins was born and asked God to bless us with healthy babies that would grow into kind, loving, productive human beings. I also asked God to prepare the perfect “loves” for each of them…life partners who would help them to be the best versions of themselves. I am still praying for these people. I know they are “out there,” and God is molding and preparing them – just as He created my husband, Greg, for me.
I recently watched a lecture by respected religious leaders*, including Sarah Wilke, whose parents served in ministry for many decades as United Methodists, and her father was a Bishop of the Arkansas Annual Conference for over a decade. Sarah noted that her mother prayed for her children before they were born and asked this of God…”Lord, grant me a child, and be preparing a partner in life for them.” Sarah went on to add that when she went to her parents at age 27 (she is now 60) and told them she had found her life partner, Nancy (to whom she has been married for 32 years), her mother said, “Well, if we are going to preach Jesus, we need to live Jesus.”
God knew and named each of us before we were even formed. He has been planning and preparing for our lives forever. God does not make mistakes. He sent Jesus to not only atone for our sins and save us for all Eternity…God also sent Jesus to be the perfect model for how to live and love. In the words of Sarah Wilke’s mother, “If we are going to preach Jesus, we need to live Jesus.”
This is about so much more than just loving and accepting the LGBTQIA+ community. Look around and see who you have disparaged or discounted in some way. Maybe you disagree with his/her politics. Maybe you have a bias against a person based on skin color, ethnic background, education level, social status – or even “Scripture interpretation.” Maybe you just simply do not like someone because they rub you the wrong way! But God loves that person. He created every one of us with the potential to live and preach Jesus.
How we treat others matters. It is not our job to change anyone…it is our job to love them. Pure and simple…Jesus told us to “Love one another.” As Sarah Wilke pointed out, people took vows before God to love others and serve Jesus. At her own infant baptism, the congregation repeated vows to nurture and protect her…to love her and encourage as she grew in faith and service to Jesus. You have likely taken those same vows at least once for someone. You may have even prayed for an unborn baby, as I did, and asked God to shower them with His abundance and blessings.
“If we are going to preach Jesus, we need to live Jesus.” This is the day to ask yourself, “How well am I doing at both?”
©2022 Debbie Robus