Colossians 3:12-15
Since you have been chosen by God who has given you this new kind of life, and because of his deep love and concern for you, you should practice tenderhearted mercy and kindness to others. Don’t worry about making a good impression on them, but be ready to suffer quietly and patiently. Be gentle and ready to forgive; never hold grudges. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others.
Most of all, let love guide your life, for then the whole church will stay together in perfect harmony. Let the peace of heart that comes from Christ be always present in your hearts and lives, for this is your responsibility and privilege as members of his body. And always be thankful.
The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
Yesterday, we had a driveway visit with our niece and her children. This was the first time since Christmas that all the circumstances aligned for us to get together like this. We were all glad to be able to see each other and interact. Greg had set out a new game – ”Go! Gater” – for everyone to play. A set of clear plastic tubes stand upright, and two players take turns trying to toss colored balls into the tubes from a distance of several feet. The first person to get three balls of the same color in a row inside one tube wins. We all took a turn at this game…and some of us were better than others.
At one point when all the balls were tossed and no one was a winner, Timothy declared that “It was a good game anyway – everyone played well.” And when the children’s mother won several games and demonstrated her skills, not a single kid complained. In fact, they enthusiastically clapped and cheered for her! When I offered ice cream treats later, none of the children fussed about the flavor they were given and accepted their wrapped offering with polite appreciation. Greg and I remarked later that they had all surely matured. There was a time when we would have encountered at least some pouting and frustration – and maybe even some disgruntled kiddos. But yesterday, harmony reigned!
The last few months have been challenging in a number of ways for this little family. We surmise that these collective experiences have taught them valuable lessons about getting along and supporting one another (and of course, credit goes to their parents, too). There have been several recent incidents where they demonstrated gratitude, cooperation, and grace toward everyone. A lot of adults could stand to cultivate such behaviors these days.
Many people are acting like immature children. They are pouting, arguing, and insisting on their own way. Selfishness has become commonplace…as has discrimination and a heightened sense of superiority among many. Lack of regard for others seems to be at an all-time high. This is manifested in everything from refusal to wear masks and consider the health and safety of others, to insistence that anyone who disagrees politically or socially is wrong at best – and in some cases, doesn’t deserve to live!
The worst part of all of this is that many of the people speaking and acting in this manner claim to be born-again Christian disciples who are operating in the will of God. And yet, we clearly see in this scripture passage and throughout the Bible that this is not what God commands – or condones. God does not call us to trample on others. He doesn’t tell us to seek personal gain and satisfaction at all costs, regardless of how it affects anyone else. God doesn’t tell us to throw a fit when we don’t “win” – or we get ice cream, but it’s not the flavor we wanted! God doesn’t tell us to engage in name calling, speak hatefully, or disrespect others. God doesn’t call us to be unloving or unforgiving.
The mandates of God are crystal clear. The responsibilities for Christian disciples are undeniable and indisputable. We cannot serve God as He commands and always have things as we want them. We must surrender our desires and intentions in favor of His. We all have work to do in this area, and we need to start now. God has given us the most amazing Gift in Salvation through the blood of Jesus – and the promise of Eternal Life in His presence. It’s time we started showing our gratitude and serving with faithful obedience…and getting along as members of His “family”.
©2021 Debbie Robus